Episode 20

From Spectator to Protector: Why I got ejected and why it matters

In a pivotal moment during my daughter's playoff basketball game, I faced a choice that every man encounters: remain a passive spectator or step up as a protector. What started as a simple high school basketball game evolved into a profound lesson about masculine leadership, courage, and the God-given role of men in today's world.

Join me as I share the raw story of how speaking up against unsafe play got me ejected from my daughter's game—and why the aftermath left me stunned. Through this personal narrative, we'll explore the critical difference between being a spectator in life and embracing our role as protectors of what matters most.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

- The moment-by-moment breakdown of a father's decision to speak up

- Why the modern pressure to "stay quiet" is damaging our families and communities

- How controlled strength differs from passive silence or uncontrolled anger

- Biblical insights on the mandate for men to be active guardians

- Why one person's courage can awaken the conviction of many

- Practical wisdom for knowing when and how to take a stand

Whether you're a father, husband, leader, or man seeking to understand your role in an increasingly passive world, this episode will challenge and equip you to step off the sidelines and into your calling as a protector.

This isn't just about a basketball game—it's about reclaiming the ancient mandate of masculine leadership in a world that desperately needs men to stand up, speak out, and protect what matters most.

#ChristianMasculinity #Leadership #Fatherhood #Courage #Protection #BiblicalManhood

About the Podcast

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Raising The Standard
Leadership, Mindset and Development for the Kingdom Man

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Josh Khachadourian

The Mission of RAISING THE STANDARD is to call men to Raise the Standard in their lives. For too long men have relinquished the high ground and are living below who they are called to be.

Josh Khachadourian is a husband, father, leader, coach and the founder of Standard 59. He has spent the last 15 years ascending the corporate ladder in a Fortune 500 company where he focused on building high performing teams and developing best in class leaders. Josh is on a mission to lift up Jesus as the Standard by which all of life's decisions, passions and pursuits will be measured by.